Aligning Your Goals
  • In This Issue

  • Feature Article:
    Allowing to get what you want

    Recommended:
    Zap Your Life: Feel the Power

    Guest Article by Enoch Tan:
    Part I: The Secret of Absolute Abundance and Wealth
    March 28, 2008
    Vol. I, Issue 1

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  • What's new

  • On my site you will find the first of three articles, written by Enoch Tan. An introduction is in this ezine.

  • Editorial

  • Springtime!
    Springtime!  Swept out the old and changed to the new. Abundance is coming. I like it to clean the house in this time of the year (other times I'm not so enthusiastic :-)).  Why?

    When the mess is cleared up there is room for something new. And every year I'm a bit tensed and curious what kind of new challenges will come to me.

    This time you are witness of one of my new challenges: this ezine "Aligning Your Goals" is born.  In this issue are several articles challenging you to sweep out the old and tap into the new. I am sure you will enjoy it.

    Welcome to this first issue.

    Marjolein Brokke

  • Aligning Your Steps: Feature Article

  • Allowing to Get What You Want
    By Marjolein Brokke
    Do you recognize this: That you want something and that you think: "This is not possible before I have a better car, a  better education, more money, better house, lost 10 pounds"? That you put an amount of conditions to yourself because you think that you will be rejected in your desires if you don't  meet  this conditions?
    Boundaries
    This conditions you put to yourself are boundaries whom doesn't allow you to have, do and be what you really want. These are the boundaries who say:" I am not good enough for that, before I am allowed to receive this I have to....."

    Now, where does this conditional thinking  come from? From your childhood. From what you has been taught as a child about:
    • values you have to live through;
    • behavior that is expected and accepted;
    • emotions you have to suppress to be beloved.
    You adapted because you were afraid to lose the love of your parents. You wanted to be a good boy or girl. By that you developed behavior and a way of thinking that, as you felt at that time, was needed to survive. And this kind of being has been sunk deep in your subconscious mind.

    Recognizing
    Now you are adult you don't need these survival strategies anymore. But you stay in your ways because this way of being is so familiar to you that you think it is part of your personality.

    Well, if this is so obvious to you, how can you recognize your boundaries? This boundaries that forbid you to allow to get what you want?

    By other people. Every time you feel jealousy, rejecting, angry, critically, or have other negative feelings about other people, they do or have something you don't allow yourself.

    And on the opposite, if you put people on a very high level of admiration you do the same thing: you make their position unattainable for yourself. The admiration of people will serve you only if you see them as a model for what you would be able to achieve.

    So learn to  know your limiting boundaries by the way you think about other people.

    Change your thoughts
    Never think again: "If I had this, then I could that" or "I have to do this, before I can do that". Instead of these sentences you better think: " I am worth it and I will get it" or "I am worth it and I will take this challenge".

    And what if you are afraid what people could say about you if you would do what is "not allowed"? How they react upon your actions says something about their limiting beliefs, their boundaries.

    So what is the worst thing that can happen if you do what you really want?


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  • Aligning Recommendations

  • "ZAP YOUR LIFE: FEEL THE POWER
    strips away the mystery around why some people are unstoppable successes... while others never seem to reach their goals. Then presents step-by-step insights we can apply to achieve any goal we may have."

    There's a reason this book is being hailed as "Remarkable" and a "Blueprint for lasting success."

    The author of this life-changing book, Dr, Jill Ammon-Wexler, is both a doctor of psychology and pioneer mind power researcher. She has served for over 35 years as a confidential personal advisor and mentor to top executives and executive teams... entrepreneurs, top athletes, and a long list of so-called "ordinary" people who became extraordinary achievers.

    Zap Your Life"Zap Your Life: Feel the Power!"
    By Dr. Jill Ammon-Wexler

    Dr. Jill incorporates her 35+ years of remarkable experience... adds the latest of modern brain science (and makes it easy to understand)... and takes you into a quantum-leap into a new level of personal reality!

    "Cuts through all the 'hocus pocus'...."

    The insights you will find in this book cut through all the "hocus pocus" around success and goal-seeking. It guides you step-by-step into a clear-light understanding of exactly who and why you are... and how to BECOME the person your goals belong to.

    "Also includes access to an exciting special website"
    PLUS... if that's not enough, the course even gives you special access to a constantly growing information-rich website with even more information, videos, audios, and motivational materials available only to readers of "Zap Your Life." You'll love this... and it's constantly changing and fresh! 

    "Zap Your Life: Feel the Power" is about the business of LIFE. It’s about breaking through confusion or overwhelm… blasting past any personal barriers… and taking a quantum leap into an entirely new level of personal success. And it’s about doing this by literally taking a quantum leap into an entirely new personal reality.

  • Aligning Your Life: Guest Article

  • The Secret of Absolute Abundance and Wealth
    By Enoch Tan

    The difference between the rich and the poor is not in how much money they have, but in the way they talk, the way they act and the way they think.

    The way you think is what you create in your inner world. The way you talk and act is what you express in your outer world.

    If you want to be fully wealthy, you must be fully congruent in your thoughts, speech and actions. Half congruence results in half wealth. Poor people communicate lack in every way while rich people communicate abundance in every way…
                                                                                                 Get full article...

  • Aligning Your Questions

  • Question by Lisa (for privacy reasons here name is changed): "I don't like my job anymore.  This is my first job and I work here for five years now, it pays very well and that is the reason I remain. I am a 26 year old woman. Would there be a job out there that would fit me better?"

    Answer: Lisa, of course there will be a job that fits you better. You could best look for a career/life coach in the area where you live. You will look with each other at your values, knowledge,  skills and your particular desires about a job.  Putting all these things together will give you a good idea of the kind of company you would be happy to work. Your coach can guide you to approve such a job.

    It will take some time and money. Use your good current earnings for this, it will be worth it and more important: you are worth it. Give yourself this present so that you get perspective again.

    Marjolein

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  • Aligning the Market

  • THE SELF DISCOVERY COMMUNITY

    The questions you ask yourself determine the level of success you will achieve. "How can I try this?" in stead of "How will I do this?" makes a big difference in your mind. Learn more about how the words you use influences your success.
    www.quantum-self.com

    • Aligning Next Issue
     
    Expected in next issue:

    - Feature Article:
      How Communication Determines the Quality of Relationships.

    - A high quality offer to improve your communication skills.

    - The second article by Enoch Tan:
      The Untold Secrets of Wealth Creation Explained.

    -  And of course all columns.

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