Bring
the essentials of your desires from now on in your life. You
will make your destiny fulfilled this way. It is an easy way
to experience the
feelings that are acquired to realize what you want the most.
You
will
get a kind of flow by which you achieve your destiny in a natural way
and see
the infinite possibilities.
If you follow the eight steps mentioned below you will become aware how
it works.
1.
Rest and relax
Take
care of that you are relaxed first. Learn to relax.
2.
Ten million dollars
Now you will do a
visualization by which you will discover what your
destiny is.
Take a big sheet of paper and
write down in
big figures: "10 million dollars" (or the equal in your currancy).
Consider: "What would I do if I owned 10
million dollars?". So you don't need to work for the money.
Imagine that you have all
skills
you need
to fulfill your destiny whatever it may be: you are graduated for all
acquired education, you dispose of all acquired personal properties
such as courage and perseverance.
And
if you would go away for some
time, there is no limit from your social environment: everything is
working with you and everything is possible.
Imagine that all your desires
can be
realized, those that you had earlier in your life too. You follow your
hart fully. How do you feel? And what are you going to do? Make it as
specific as you can.
4. Make
a global plan
for the next three to five years.
Pitfalls
It is a pitfall to stay on a very specific formulated desire too early
in the creation process. When what we want to manifest, is too specific
formulated, we can easily come in a state of fear or resistance or we
start to doubt the feasibility of our desire. Furthermore, many ways in
which you could get your destiny fulfilled, will be closed.
An other pitfall is, that we
start
questioning how we ever will get our destiny fulfilled, which maybe
look
very
different than our present life. Then you can come in a swamp of
doubts, fear and resistance.
5.
Essentials
Now you consider the next
questions and write down what comes up: "Of
all
those things, where is your hart the most involved? Which of these
things will brighten your eyes the most?" And: "What will you get from
it? What will it provide you?"
These
questions will give you more
insight about the deeper layers of the essential of what you desire. In
those deeper layers is hidden your destiny.
Once you have written down
your
essentials in
six to eight clear and attractive core values, you will have enough
focus while there is enough space for unexpected ways that your desire
can come to you.
During the process of finding
your
essentials, it is important to question frequently: "If this is
realized, is there something missing on my happiness?". This way you
will recognize new essentials until there will be about seven
infinite.
And when an
essential is not yet enough "essential", you must ask
yourself what the benefit is of this particular essential. And what is
the benefit of that, and so on. Until you come down to the essential
that is the bottom line. Examples of essentials are:
authenticity;
being meaningful for yourself and others;
energy;
joy;
freedom;
gratitude;
creativity;
Being.
A pitfall in this case is that
an
essential
is formulated so general that the attractiveness disappears for you. It
is important that you get sparkling eyes from your essentials.
6.
Mission statement
With help from your six to
eight essentials you formulate a mission
statement to manifest your destiny: one ore more powerful sentences,
formulated in the present time and starting with "I" wherein the
essentials in some way or another are combined.
To get your
destiny fulfilled, this mission statement forms together with your
intention a
powerful urge to realize your essentials and by that your destiny.
Such a statement is an
assertion
that will
let you say: "Yes, this is what I really want!" or even "Yes, this is
me!". You will say fully "Yes" to it. From within. And most of the time
you will be excited or touched. You know by that how it feels to have
your destiny fulfilled.
A mission statement of this
kind
should not
give you a feeling of a performance. Or a feeling of failure. You
should
be able to believe in it. This means that you should formulate it in a
way that fits you so, that you get excited to manifest your
destiny.
Examples
of such a mission statement are:
"In loving connection and full of joy I spread my experienced wisdom,
relaxed and in peace to individuals and groups, while I enforce my
faith in an abundant universe in moments that I am alone".
"In freedom I am creative,
authentic and meaningful for myself and
others. This gives me energy and joy. And it makes me grateful."
7.
The NOW
Back to the present. The most
important thing we can do in the NOW is:
acceptance
of your NOW as it looks. Be more gentle to yourself and your
life. Learn to say "Yes" to what is now in the present of your
life.
Beneath this you
can start NOW to work on getting your destiny
fulfilled by
daily imagination of your desires and reading your mission statement.
8.
Manifest your destiny
What can you do to experience
the essentials of your desires in your
life NOW? What do you need to experience the essentials of your desires
in your life from now on?
Or
what is limiting you to do so? Where in
your life do you already experience your essentials? Where do you
have fulfilled already your destiny without knowing this?
In your daily or weekly
review, look
always
to: "Where was I this day or week already doing or living my
essentials?". This is a simple way to put your attention to your
essentials. And as you know: where your attention goes, will grow. In
addition you work, by doing this, to your acceptance of your present
life.
Next you think about one or
more ways to
bring in your life consciously more (and more) of each essential. It is
of importance that you like the actions, that you become enthusiastic.
The check is always: does it brighten your eyes?
For instance: one of your
essentials is
nature. You can decide to pick nick at least once a week on a beautiful
place in nature. By doing this you realize your future a little bit and
you encourage the stream of energy through which the by you desired
future will come to you in other ways too. Maybe ways that you never
have thought of.
Regularity
It is important that you think
about actions that you can repeat
regularly so that your intention and the belonging stream of energy
become integrated in your life. So, in the example above, you pick nick
each week or you find an other way to bring more nature in your life in
a regularly way.
So, to each essential, you
find one or more
actions to bring more of this essential in your life.
You have to follow through
those actions
with attention during six to eight weeks. This asks for a soft
commitment and the faith that in this way, as a matter of course, other
steps or actions can come in focus.
It is recommended to review
each
two weeks to consider of your action plan yet fits and to change it if
necessary, so that you can remain working with it with
pleasure.
After
six to eight weeks you can review the progress of this process, to
decide how you will continue, until you effortless, as a matter of
course, manifest your destiny, and are arrived in your desired future,
having your destiny fulfilled.
During the process of working
with your
essentials, it is necessary to be open to signs in your life who show
you the law of attraction is working the way you want it.
That means
there are happenings and meetings that resonate with what you radiate,
when you are in connection with the essentials of your
desires. Involve those
notices in your diary or actions.
What
if...
If you notice that you are not
enthusiastic about your plan as you
could be, consider of the essentials aren't to
general or on a level that does not touch you deep enough.
If you notice that you,
working on this
process, experience doubt, fear or resistance, consider if one of the
following things are happening in your manifesting process:
"Am I to busy with the
question HOW I should get my destiny
fulfilled?".
Look if you can release this and are able to trust the law of
attraction, who makes that where you put your attention, will come to
you.
"Did I have make a too
specific image of
what I want to manifest, so there is not enough space for possibilities
that I cannot see yet?". Go back to your essentials.
Consider what is
the essential of this specific image. How can you bring in your life
already now this essential to get your destiny fulfilled?
'Am I aiming too high? Is my
action plan
too pretentious or is in the first place my mission statement too
pretentious formulated?". Be more gentle in your actions and/or your
mission statement.
Follow through with
persistence and you
will get your destiny fulfilled.
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