Steps for
Personal Goal Setting and Personal Growth
An other way you can use the personal goal setting steps is to take one
step that you want to
develop and make this a goal for personal growth. You can use all the
steps to achieve this goal and your ability to achieve other goals will
grow exponentially.
When you look at the steps, which one would you like to develop?
Receiving everything in a grateful way?
Appreciating yourself, life and other people?
To destress and relax and enjoy life?
To know what your real desires are?
The ability to imagine specifically what you
desire?
To believe in yourself with confidence and
conviction?
To communicate in an easy way, without fear of
rejection?
To know where you can find information to
examine your possibilities?
To make a good, structured plan and stick to it?
To make decisions?
To take motivated actions?
Persistence, patience?
Steps for Goal Setting
Which of these steps do you get stuck on? Or perhaps there is an other
obstacle that came up in your mind while you read this.
If
you are getting stuck on a particular step, the cause is always on a
previous step. Go one step back and examine if you are confident with
the outcome of practicing it. If so, do an other step back,
until
you stumble across the step you didn't perform well.
Let me give you an example.
Take
the case that you make a plan because you want to make a website. You
put everything you know that should be done on a piece of paper.
But
then you discover that you don't know enough about the subject. You
don't know in which order you should do the tasks and you are doubting
whether you miss some important knowledge.
This can mean
that you didn't make your research thoroughly (one step back). Or/and
you didn't talk to people who have experience with building a website
business (two steps back). It could be that you do not even believe
that you could do it (three steps back). Or further back if needed.
Let
us say, because you are shy, you didn't talk with people who are
experienced and who could have given you advice about which site
builder companies are reliable and what is acquired to do in order to
start a successful home business.
In this case you make
"speaking easily to unknown people and asking for help" your goal.
Now
you apply all the personal goal setting steps on this goal.
Personal Growth
Step 1: Start with receiving
what you've got: you don't know how to plan and you miss a lot of
information because you
are afraid that people would reject you. Acknowledge this
fact.
Step 2: Then appreciate this because
it gives you the possibility for personal growth.
Step 3: Relax
and be patient, stress will bring you nowhere.
Step 4: Your desire
could be to feel your power without fear of rejection.
Step 5: Imagine
now how you speak to unknown people with confidence and conviction.
Step 6: You get excited and you change all disbeliefs in the belief that you can
do this. You commit yourself to it.
Step 7: Now first you start to speak
with people you know and trust about your desire. You will get tips and
advice.
Step 8: Next you start to research,
you read books about communication, you look at people who communicate
easily to learn how they perform and perhaps you look for a
communication course.
Step 9: Then you start to organize and plan all
possibilities that you could do to overcome your shyness.
Step 10:You make a decision
about which of the possible solutions you
choose.
Step 11:Then you take action
upon the chosen solution to develop this new habit.
Step 12:It will take some time but when you persist
you will have so much more power that you will find your way to make a
beautiful website and all possible other goals in your life will be
achieved much more easily.
The steps for personal goal setting may bring you everywhere you want
if you use them for personal growth.
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