20 Self Confidence Tips

Below you find 20 self confidence tips. They are suggestions, take what fits you. Some of them have much impact and ask a big step, other are simple. All of them will contribute to your self awareness

1. A positive attitude about life and look forward to life in a positive way;


2. Take distance from your past (and the deforming of yourself) and from a possibly irksome, negative or unsafe environment;


3. Finish things. Education-if possible. Make yourself clear about relationships with friends, family, acquaintances. This can mean too that you breath new life into a relationship or want to finish it;


4. Go for challenges, especially cases that you are not sure of being able to cope;


5. Stop (eventually) with your negative relationship or your boring job or in any case do something about those things;


6. One of the better self confident tips: Contact people with a positive attitude who stimulate you in stead of lowering you;


7. Especially stop to lower yourself; give yourself compliments and agreements and accept this too from others;


8. Do not compare yourself with others; that's a perpetual competition, look at your own qualities;


9. Increase your self knowledge about your possibilities, talents, pitfalls and especially your challenges (by a focused diary, books, courses or conversations);


10. Choose an active and positive way to relax in stead of a passive or negative;


11. Take care of yourself and others well - physical like movement, sports and mental like meditation, relaxing, breathing techniques. Make life lighter for yourself and others by humor and putting things into perspective;


12. Find help from a psychologist in the case that you get stuck of negative emotions about yourself and experience a great lack of self confidence for a long time;


13. Forgive yourself and others for mistakes and errors, so you can ahead with your life in any case; this is one of my favorite self confidence tips!


14. Give other people a good feeling about themselves, as well physical as mental - stimulate and activate their possibilities;


15. Dare to give and receive criticism - about behavior, not about the person self;


16. Gain life experience and learn your own wisdom; determine what is really important to you and what not;


17. Want to excel especially in one area or subject;


18. Change your lifestyle drastically, if it does not satisfy you. For instance from a materialistic to a more spiritual way of living;


19. Take the advices from others no longer for granted, specially because these advices most of the time are subjective; depart from your own to determine your new way and do not depart to much from your experiences from the past;


20. Agree with yourself in a positive way on a daily base.

You will understand: with only reading you will not proceed, you have to do it. Start with the ones that are easy to do, than go a level higher, dare to do a more difficult tip, and so on. Or... are you the kind of person that likes to take drastic steps? Take the self confidence tips that fit you the most and ACT!